Why I Teach About Relationships and Marriage

• As a single person, I was thriving creatively and personally suffering from what I call “culture capture”.

• I considered myself an empowered, liberal, feminist, and easily related “man to man” with guys in the workplace, but I couldn’t be vulnerable outside the context of work or friendship. I was blonde and still fit in my prom dress, but I barely got past first dates. I was activating my inner masculine energy in all areas of life. I used control disguised as “choice” (the culture reinforces this).

• I pushed men away, settled for crumbs, and confused longing with real connection. I had to learn how to surrender, trust God, and develop inner security. I activated patience, trust, and emotional maturity. I restored my respect for men, motherhood and the family, and became someone truly worth marrying. I began trusting there was someone for me, while also accepting my path may not include marriage. In other words, I made friends with myself and the paradox.

• Meeting Dr. Pat Allen radically changed my life. Her effective research and teachings heavily influence my podcasting and coaching. She helped me create new habits with cognitive behavioral shifts. Dr. Pat’s incredible work is, in large part, what I use in my own marriage and my teaching practice.

I believe that many lonely single women and struggling spouses are simply a few small changes away from massive, prosperous shifts. I teach dating and relating in a way that “sands down” the ego and lower frequency character traits, allowing for feminine flow, and respecting masculine leadership.

The skills and tools I teach to help single women thrive and find love are also necessary within the context of marriage. I use them daily.

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