Amy Loftus
Originally from Chicago, Amy got her start on stage at Second City and has worked as a professional actress in film and television, a singer/songwriter, voice over actor, dancer, and certified yoga teacher.
She began teaching and coaching women about emotional intimacy and relationships in 2017 through her first podcast "Something Better." Writing material to assist the process for her students resulted in her memoir/handbook, Eve's Second Chance: Heal, Marry, Prosper (2024), with its companion album of demos. Amy has a current podcast by the same name.
Amy prioritizes trust in God and spiritual growth and helps women to restore or establish that trust and realize relationship dreams. She is passionate about restoring womanhood, motherhood, and spreading a message of lasting, harmonious fulfillment - that an empowered woman can be a surrendered wife. She is a grateful wife and stepmom and lives in North Carolina.
“After decades of Culture Capture, getting married and becoming a stepmom later in life..
was a journey full of miracles and lessons that inspire me to serve women. I can help you, if you are willing to do the inner work.”
Why I Teach About Relationships and Marriage
As a single person, I was thriving creatively and personally suffering from what I call “culture capture”.
I considered myself an empowered, liberal, feminist, and easily related “man to man” with guys in the workplace, but I couldn’t be vulnerable outside the context of work or friendship. I was blonde and still fit in my prom dress, but I barely ever went on dates. I was activating my competitive inner masculine energy, which repels goodhearted masculine leaders and baffles women who are matching the egoic, “edgy” messages they constantly see in media - unaware that it leads to isolation, not collaboration.
I had to learn how to trust God, surrender, and develop the stamina to receive without fear. I restored patience, trust, and emotional maturity. I restored respect for men and family, and became someone truly worth marrying.
Meeting Dr. Pat Allen radically changed my life. Her effective research has influenced my work and inspired my book.
Lonely single women are often a few small changes away from massive, prosperous shifts. I teach women to date without emotional burdens that arrive from premature sex, substance use, and initiating contact with a man. Dating with high standards in a simple way “sands down” maladjustments in the psyche and removes obstacles, allowing for feminine flow and respect for masculine leadership. This makes way for simple things.
If you flirt, you’ll date and if you date, you’ll marry.