Hi, I’m AMY LOFTUS.
I am originally from Chicago, and got my start on stage doing improv at Second City. I worked as a professional actress, dancer and voice over artist until I committed to working as a singer/songwriter and certified yoga teacher for over a decade.
I began teaching women about emotional intimacy and relationships in 2017 through my first podcast "Something Better” which asked the question why are so many women single?
Then came 2020, and I began investigating how it happened. While writing material to teach and assist gals who were not only dating, but navigating major changes alone, I discovered deceptive elements of feminism and coined the term “culture capture” to describe what women are facing today.
The result was my memoir/handbook, Eve's Second Chance: Heal, Marry, Prosper (2024), with its companion album of demos. I have a current podcast with the same name.
I prioritize trust in God and spiritual growth and I help women to restore or establish that trust and realize relationship dreams. I am determined to help gals reclaim womanhood, motherhood, and marriage. I teach about emotional fitness and masculine and feminine energies (or tendencies) rooted in biological realities.
A woman can be empowered according to high standards she sets, while averting destructive narratives in the culture - and she can simultaneously be a surrendered wife.
I want to help ya get (and stay) married!
“After decades of Culture Capture, getting married and becoming a stepmom later in life…
…was a journey full of miracles and lessons that inspire me to serve women. I can help you, if you are willing to do the inner work.”
Why I Teach About Relationships and Marriage
As a single person, I was thriving creatively and personally suffering from what I call “culture capture”.
I considered myself an empowered, liberal, feminist, and easily related “man to man” with guys in the workplace, but I couldn’t be vulnerable outside the context of work or friendship. I was blonde and still fit in my prom dress, but I barely ever went on dates. I was activating my competitive inner masculine energy, which repels goodhearted masculine leaders and baffles women who are matching the egoic, “edgy” messages they constantly see in media - unaware that it leads to isolation, not collaboration.
I had to learn how to trust God, surrender, and develop the stamina to receive without fear. I restored patience, trust, and emotional maturity. I restored respect for men and family, and became someone truly worth marrying.
Meeting Dr. Pat Allen radically changed my life. Her effective research has influenced my work and inspired my book.
Lonely single women are often a few small changes away from massive, prosperous shifts. I teach women to date without emotional burdens that arrive from premature sex, substance use, and initiating contact with a man. Dating with high standards in a simple way “sands down” maladjustments in the psyche and removes obstacles, allowing for feminine flow and respect for masculine leadership. This makes way for simple things.
If you flirt, you’ll date and if you date, you’ll marry.
