WELCOME to
Emotional Fitness, For the Holidays
Tired of “just getting through” the holidays?
What if you can have a nice time, with or without a plus one as the single girl at a table of couples?
What if it could be a time to slow down, savor even the struggles, and open to the grace of the season?
Community
Join like-minded women who will support and encourage you throughout the holiday season, whether you are dating or taking a break from it.
Resources and Journaling Challenges
The EF membership is chock full of resources to try a new way this holiday season.
From Self-Abandoning to Self-Care
You don’t have to chase dreams, you can build a life that has plenty of room for them.
Lean on our Emotional Fitness Membership for one flat fee, for 44 days: from Nov. 23rd 2026 until January 5th 2027. You will have access to our weekly Group Zoom, Substack chat and inner circle podcasts, and tons of video resources and downloads to go from dreading to enjoying the holiday season as a single!
What’s included in the Emotional Fitness Membership?
It is easy to understand the principles I wrote about in my book and teach to women today - you already innately know all of them. What’s tough at times is un-learning the pervasive messages of the culture, pivoting away from old and maintaining high standards when you’re flooded and triggered, because finding and keeping love is such a high-stakes area of life. You are not alone, and you don’t have to take this journey alone.
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Sign up and get your burning questions about dating answered and learn from other gals when they ask questions. Finding companionship with like-minded pals who are invested in spiritual growth and seeking commitment or already committed is part of the path of marriage. Sharing openly breeds emotional intimacy, which overflows into mature, emotionally intimate love. A place of steadfast relief and warmth, Fridays.
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The guidance videos keep - they don’t spoil. So do all the written resources. The repetition of information in the book “Eve’s Second Chance” and on our Zooms is necessary for firming up new habits. Think of them as a replacement that is there for you when it’s tough to make a new choice and change a behavior.
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The workshop incentives provide foundational habits to help you maintain higher standards on your path to love. Committing to someone else begins with committing to yourself, and the incentives will challenge you and help you feel better.
Seasonal Group Zooms
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Thanksgiving Week
Mon. Nov. 23rd 2026
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Christmas Week
Mon. Dec. 21, 2026
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New Year's Week
Mon. Jan. 4, 2027
FAQs
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Come and go as you please. No minimums or requirements for the basic EF membership. All I ask is that you are willing to pray with us at the beginning of our Zooms. I meet people where they are.
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There is a requirement for a minimum of three months into the basic membership before signing up for the Voxer commitment. Voxer is open to current or past EF members. It is a commitment, which is the antidote to a feeling of being unwanted and alone. Once you become comfortable with the principles in the book and the sharing on our Zooms, it is easier to get the most out of the moment-to-moment shifts that arise in the Voxer service.
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I met my husband in 2012, and I did not have dating apps. They were emerging at that time. I used e-harmony and match dot com to practice detached dating. I also did group hobbies, volunteering, and told everyone I knew or met that I wanted to be set up. Members on the Zooms inform me and answer questions on specifics at times, but the principles apply to apps. Apps are a tool, not a solution.
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During my first year of teaching women, a gal came to me for guidance and I advised she end the relationship. She is married to that man with children today, and that was the last time I gave specific advice. I teach principles and I provide tools, but only God knows who belongs in your life. If you encounter a circumstance where more acute and crucial support is necessary, especially regarding the character of a date or boyfriend, I may refer you to a clinician or trauma therapist.
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Yes, you are welcome to join for embracing feminine energy behaviors in your marriage. Singles and spouses can learn a lot from each other on our Group Zooms.
Lean on our Emotional Fitness Membership for one flat fee, for 44 days: from Nov. 23rd 2026 until January 5th 2027. You will have access to our weekly Group Zoom, Substack chat and inner circle podcasts, and tons of video resources and downloads to go from dreading to enjoying the holiday season as a single!